girl talk👸🏼

ladies, what’s good😎

so overtime, i’ve had friends that were caught up in what i call ‘boy drama’. and all in all i’ve come to realize that if a person is not part of God’s plan for your life, THEY HAVE TO GO!

half the time, we (girls) think we are the ones with the problem. we keep thinking ‘oh maybe i wasn’t good enough for him’ and all that stuff but hey, YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR HIM, TOO MUCH FOR HIM TO HANDLE. so he had to leave.

always bear this in mind, most people will never see what a good person you are and it’s fine my darling; tell you why? 

‘God doesn’t show your heart to everybody. He only shows it to people he can trust with it’.✨

so if they lose you, jokes on them! 

YOU ARE ENOUGH 

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL even when you don’t think it, even when you don’t need it, no matter how many people don’t say it, and you shouldn’t even care if they know it, which is why you don’t try so hard all the time to show it. 

so my darling DO NOT let anybody look down on you. never! 

you’re a queen, a small god, you were fearfully and wonderfully made in the image and likeness of God.

so stop all the tears and drama;

remember how your mother kept her bones warm on nights when your father was away,so do not love a man who keeps on clinging to the pillow for too many nights.

stay away from men who peel the skin of other women, forcing you to wear them.

remember how your mother struggled to find her skin in the pile.

do not scratch your words, soften your pain or scrub yourself in shame.

most importantly,

do not drown yourself in a man;

he will leave you struggling to breathe. ✨

          ‘i have made you and i will carry you, i will sustain you and i will rescue you’. 

                             – Isaiah 46:4 ✨